EXTREME CONCENTRATION
I met Earl (of Earl Bananas and His Band With Appeal) in Kansas City. Earl’s band had been a minor sensation in St. Louis decades previously. Now Earl was a hotel developer with interests in trumpet, tennis, gardening and Orthodox Judaism. We talked about all that. We were at a Shabbat dinner.
Earl said it was difficult to achieve kavanah (a prayerful mindset) in synagogue. It was a easier in music or even tennis, he said. He could really zone out at music and tennis. My wife, Alice, a gym teacher, said zoning out is also known as “flow.”
“Flow” and kavanah are overrated. Face it, you can lose track of time at a casino or on Facebook.
Try to keep track of time. That’s the challenge. At a bar mitzvah party, Yiddishe Cup strolled, going table to table, taking requests. We heard a crash – a table collapsing. We kept on playing. Then a second table collapsed. A third table went down . . . there were salads on the floor; 10-person round tables buckling; ice water, silverware and bread rolls all over. People were jumping away from the tables. People were soaked. We kept playing. I said, “We’re on the Titanic, boys. Just keep playing.” Extreme concentration.
(The tables hadn’t been properly locked underneath.)
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Now I know I “flow” sometimes when I try to count time during my daily exercises or when a handyman is trying to explain a repair rationale, someone is talking sports teams, or my cleaning guy is explaining something about computer software or cable tv equipment. I can thank Alice for vocabulary enrichment.
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